Based on the view that real self-esteem is grounded in facts and truths, real achievements, and real competencies, this book helps children 8 to 12 years old understand the importance of knowing, valuing, and being oneself while striving to do what is right. The book contains kid- friendly, practical, fun, and easy-to-use methods to help children develop the personal power they need to make the right choices every day. Part 1 of the book concerns personal power and focuses on five ways to get and use personal power: (1) being responsible for one's behavior and feelings; (2) making choices and understanding the difference between realistic and unrealistic expectations; (3) getting to know oneself; (4) getting and using power in one's relationships, including help in dealing with authority figures, parents, peers, and bullies; and (5) learning to live happily ever after by keeping a daily "happiness list." Part 2 centers on self-esteem, noting that self-esteem is not conceit, arrogance, or superiority, and that children are responsible for their own self-esteem. This part includes a self-quiz on self-esteem so children can see how this concept influences their everyday lives. Also included is an "I-Did-It" list that helps children recognize their own positive thoughts and "estimable" deeds and recognize that action creates pride in oneself. (KB)