The paper explores the portrayal of social relations among youth in the popular Norwegian TV-series "Skam" and places this analysis in relation to Anne Imhof's award-winning performance piece "Faust," which received the Golden Lion at the 2017 Venice Biennale for the German Pavilion. As expressions of how today's youth experience social relations under the conditions of late capitalism, I examine the way in which the TV-series and the performance work respectively explore when and how 'we' is shaped. I argue that they provide particular insight into the limits and possibilities for the formation of relations of solidarity today.