Rejecting the objectivity that is privileged in contemporary education and social science research, analyses of subjectivity and the self are central to Black feminist research. I take up this attention to subjectivity in an effort to consider men's engagement with feminisms. Specifically, I am interested in how Black men responsibly and ethically participate in the work of Black feminisms. To do so, I interrogate readings of Black masculinity through Black feminist auto/ethnography. I expound on a methodological intervention that I term "limbos in the wake" with respect to the gendered privileges inherited by Black cisgender men.